The biggest trend I’m seeing lately is brides choosing to walk themselves down the aisle or walking down with their groom. Some see walking alone as a show of independence, a sign that they are making their own choice in who to marry. The symbolism of bride and groom entering together is also one that their lives are joined, and they are both choosing to take this journey together.
Either way, whether brides make this choice because of complicated family issues or a sense of their own individuality, it always makes for a lovely entrance.
Many brides and grooms are also deciding to have both sides walk down the aisle, escorted by family. And it’s not just parents: grandparents, siblings, aunts and uncles…processionals can also be a family affair. This choice does offer a personal moment with the family, a chance for loved ones to give their parting advice, to kiss you on the cheek. This produces an intimate moment, and the photos of it can be priceless.
It’s hard to choose, sometimes, with blended families bringing step-fathers, uncles, and grandparents into the mix when it comes time to decide who to walk down the aisle with. If you are diplomatic in explaining your choices, you may be able to smooth over any friction caused by your decision and ultimately give you the moment you want.
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